The Photo Gallery: Animals

by RosieS on July 23, 2014


It isn’t the best image as I snapped it quickly on my phone. It was taken during our stay at Chessington World of Adventures over the weekend. The hotel backs on to a gorgeous safari park, a world away from the slight craziness of the theme park.

I treated IJ to a break there to celebrate her eleventh birthday. She loved it. Next time we go I’ll grab a shot of the giraffes at the back of the park, which were even more impressive than the zebras.

This week’s gallery theme is: Animals. Check out Tara’s blog for more entries.


I’ve spent the last few weeks immersed in the world of Paul Weller, the Kaiser Chiefs, The Charlatans, The Basement Jaxx and James. That’s not a line I ever thought I’d be writing in a blog post.

I’m currently managing the social media for the Umbria Rock Festival. It’s a little bit epic. It also makes me sound super cool in the eyes of an eleven year old even if she doesn’t actually know most of the bands.

What better job can than to be and to listen to music all day, all in the name of research, while tweeting rock bands?! (Note is does involve a little more work than that!).

Best of all it has reintroduced me to the world of music, which I’ve missed. So used to listening to IJ’s pop music and X-Factor’s finalists, I’d forgotten there was decent music out there.

Soo my life is currently a rather bizarre, yet exciting, mixture of new business ventures, pampering gifts, rock stars and festivals. I love the randomness of it all. I’ve also fallen back in love with James (the band) and discovered Paul Weller several decades after everyone else.

So I thought I’d share some of my recent discoveries, all from bands performing at the Umbria Rock Festival this August, naturally.

James Walk like you. A stunning and beautifully haunting song from their newly released album, La Petite Mort. You’ll want to play it on repeat.

A boppy dance song from Basement Jaxx, first released in back in 2006. Loving the lines: I don’t care what people say, I’m going to do it my way. Do your thing.

Paul ‘The Modfather’ Weller and Amy Winehouse performing I Heard it Through the Grapevine on Jools Holland back in 2008. Bittersweet.

The Only One I Know – a classic from The Charlatans and one that HAS to be played on full volume. Totally awesome.

Blumming love Ruby the Kaiser Chiefs!

Any other bands I need to add to my dusted down iTunes account, let me know!


View from the park bench

I’ve spent the afternoon working in the park – one of the perks of working from home. Rather unexpectedly I was joined by a group of 30 school children, all in high spirits at the end of term. They decamped a short distance from me by a pair of trees so the teachers could sit in the shade while the children ran around.

It was while I was watching them play with footballs and tennis balls and playing tag (or is it tig?) that something occurred to me. There wasn’t a computer screen in sight. Yet here they were laughing and squealing, happy and carefree.

IJ doesn’t do that enough. Play, that is. Most of the games she plays are via a computer screen – the Wii U being her latest obsession, with Minecraft a close second.

I thought she’d gone past the point of typical children’s offline play (the only play we knew when I was growing up). But yesterday, on her birthday, it wasn’t her new gadgets she wanted to play with. It was her loom bands and Polly Pocket yacht that stole her attention. She spent hours playing with them, often asking me to join in.

Loom bands

Thinking about it, getting creative with loom bands is probably the first time we’ve really ‘played’ together in months. Too often solitary computer games have taken over.

So watching IJ enjoying her ‘non-screen’ presents yesterday, thinking about the hours we’ve both spent making bracelets from loom bands, and watching the school children running around outdoors has taught me something. Play is still incredibly important and we need to do more of it. Cue the tennis racquets.


The Fear

by RosieS on July 15, 2014

Playing Pooh Sticks.

I started writing a slightly sentimental blog post the other day marking IJ’s eleventh birthday. It started off by mentioning how difficult the early days were and how daunting and bewildering it can be when you’re on your own with a newborn.

It reflected a little on our more difficult early years when I was still adjusting to the immense responsibility of single parenthood and, to be frank, not doing that well. And it mentioned that when you come through the dark times, the good times – like now – shine far brighter.

Towards the end I included a message to anyone in a similar situation to the one I was in eleven years ago – bringing a child into the world on their own – that yes, it’s hard, and yes, it’s exhausting and slightly terrifying. There’s still a huge stigma attached to single parenting that needs to go, and at times you will feel that negativity, but do what you can to ignore anyone who questions your life, your family, your choices. Those people have not walked your path. They are not you. And you are stronger than you think.

I ended the post by talking about the two of us now, eleven years on. One adult and one child in the same household for over a decade makes for an incredibly close, secure relationship, like no other.

Then, talking about my gorgeous eleven-year-old daughter, how proud I am of her and how far we’ve both come together, in every sense of the word, The Fear kicked in.

The fear that every parent experiences at some time or other. The fear that comes with having something incredibly precious in your life.  I don’t really need to say any more.

So IJ is celebrating being eleven, and I’m reflecting on our journey of the last eleven years. An incredible one, not without its bumps in the road and the occasional crater, but one we’ve shared together, just the two of us.

With the worry and fear that comes with being a parent, come so many happy moments too. I’m going to try and focus on them today. And eat lots of cake.


My Plan B

by RosieS on July 11, 2014

For the last six months or so I’ve been working away in the background on a project I hope I’ll still be working on in five years’ time. It’s exciting, nerve-wracking and a big leap into the relatively unknown. And I’m loving every minute of it.

I’ve been referring to it as my plan B for some time. Here’s a sneak peak at what it involves:

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You see, given the uncertainty that can go with working for someone else and the incredible stress that goes with losing your job suddenly, I decided I wanted to take more control over my future and create something that was 100% mine.

So as hinted at in a previous post, I’ve set up my own business and it’s almost ready to launch. It’s an ecommerce venture, drawing on my background in retail and digital, selling pampering gift boxes, like this one:

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The mission is to encourage everyone to take a little time out from the daily grind and enjoy a little me time, because life is busy and we often don’t make time for ourselves despite the enormous health benefits of doing so.

I’ll be offering a range of gifts and treats you can order for yourself or have delivered through the post to someone else, for a variety of different occasions or just because.

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But these will be pampering boxes with a difference. Every single product included in the parcels has been carefully sourced to ensure that it gives something back, in some small way, to nature, to the environment, to workers in developing countries or to local communities.

So the products included are a mixture of natural, organic and Fairtrade plus those sourced from small independent business.

I’ve always called it my Plan B. Now it has a name – Pamper Parcels – and it launches next month.

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Come over and join the pre-launch excitement on Facebook, Twitter,  Google+ and Pinterest!

Special thanks to my designers Chloe at Poppi Design and Katie at Supafrank who’ve done an awesome job.


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